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Hello baby. Mr.. Kipling wrote ….
…. the words to which I have written but it’s not important who wrote them. Important that you can read the. Whether your sweet mom and your incredible father will one day read it.
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If you can keep your head when all about you If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can make one heap of all your winnings If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, » |
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Se riesci a tenere la testa a posto quando tutti intorno a te
Se puoi sognare, senza fare dei sogni i tuoi padroni; dato la vita, distrutte, Se puoi fare un solo mucchio di tutte le tue fortune Se riesci a parlare alle folle e conservare la tua virtù, |
about friendship
Then when your dad had that crazy idea that join him in Europe where he had to go, everything being planned before we even met, but did not want to stay all that time without me, this is when Claudio decided to fly from Italy, where he lives, to Berlin and meet me and also have a chance to meet Marcus. You may wonder why the idea was crazy. Well it was just a matter of being two weeks apart and the ticket was incredibly expensive so it would be far more sensible to stay but marcus argued that he does not care about the money as much as being with me and as he never spoiled himself much in the ways many people dohe can afford this little bit of luxury to have me with him and spoil himself now this way. He argued that two weeks is a long time when every minute with me is precious. You cannot imagine how nice it is to hear something like this and even though your mind tells you something else and to be rational about it your heart sings This is exactly the correct way and should be any different:) .
Anyway back to Claudio, who also spent a crazy amount of money booking his flight at a last minute and being him he booked two flights there, one in the evening and then another one in the morning which he decided to use so he can spend few hours more with us. So here you were meeting your uncle for the first time.
Claudio was a friend of my ex Italian Boyfriend and I really don’t know why because these two were so very different. I met Marcello when I was only 17 and we had something going on for a year or two but not a close or deeply involved relationship, we shared passion for travels and I loved spending time in Italy learning about Italian culture and way of life but i nvr thought of getting involved more seriously with Marcello because something was always lacking there. I met Claudio too but did not have chance to get to know him better.
I seperated from marcello but somehow in a strange way. our paths met again and we went back together for a little while but when things started becoming more involved I it didn’t work for me. He was a typical Italian “macho”. He always used to own restaurants, discos, yachts and though he knew how to enjoy life, appreciate food and wine, sun and travels and spending holidays with him had a lot of attraction, living with him was a completely different matter. He was self-centred and unfortunately had quite a superficial attitude to life and people.
Instead of finding the confidence inside of him, in his wisdom and intelligence, experience and attitude to life which would give him a powerful string image he wanted, he looked for it in appearances, making impression on others with shallow things and behavior full of pretense. I have realised to I was very much a useful accessory to him. He still enjoyed the travels with me and sharing time having good discussions but it mattered now so much more, or maybe now with age I was able to see it so much better, to show me around and to make it public people know I “belong” to him.
Well don’t know if you are a girl or boy yet, in either case i hope you will neither end up with a man like this or end up being a man like this. They look successful and happy outside but their life lacks real substance and they will always end up being lonely even though they may sourround themselves with people and indulge in all things fun and never be alone. being alone and being lonely are two different things my Baby.e siccome sei molto lontano più forte ti scriverò.
Da quando sei partito c’è una grossa novità,
l’anno vecchio è finito ormai
ma qualcosa ancora qui non va.
Si esce poco la sera compreso quando è festa
e c’è chi ha messo dei sacchi di sabbia vicino alla finestra,
e si sta senza parlare per intere settimane,
e a quelli che hanno niente da dire
del tempo ne rimane.
Ma la televisione ha detto che il nuovo anno
porterà una trasformazione
e tutti quanti stiamo già aspettando
sarà tre volte Natale e festa tutto il giorno,
ogni Cristo scenderà dalla croce
anche gli uccelli faranno ritorno.
Ci sarà da mangiare e luce tutto l’anno,
anche i muti potranno parlare
mentre i sordi già lo fanno.
E si farà l’amore ognuno come gli va,
anche i preti potranno sposarsi
ma soltanto a una certa età,
e senza grandi disturbi qualcuno sparirà,
saranno forse i troppo furbi
e i cretini di ogni età.
Vedi caro amico cosa ti scrivo e ti dico
e come sono contento
di essere qui in questo momento,
vedi, vedi, vedi, vedi,
vedi caro amico cosa si deve inventare
per poter riderci sopra,
per continuare a sperare.
E se quest’anno poi passasse in un istante,
vedi amico mio
come diventa importante
che in questo istante ci sia anch’io.
L’anno che sta arrivando tra un anno passerà
io mi sto preparando, è questa la novità.
…about being loved
My Dear,
you may think grown ups are all-knowing. Well, your parents are still almost always right but in fact, no human being should ever stop learning and taking in or one is relatively speaking moving backwards.
Take you father for instance who at the age of 42 is still wondering WHY he is being loved and liked by your mum so much. Is it because he cannot comprehend the quirk of fate that made your parent’s paths cross? Maybe. Does he think he is not worth receiving what your mum gave and gives so generously and then, as in a self-fulfilling prophecy making sure he isn’t by treating her badly? More like it and he is so mistaken.
Therefore, please always appreciate what good others do to you as it happens. You may get burned once or twice or even more often but it is worth five-ten-fiftyfold for the one time where all the love, passion and tenderness is genuine. If something is requested from you, effort, small sacrifices, attention do not take them as ulteriour motives or demands. Give without expecting and take without questioning.
Do not mistake human interaction and love with business transactions. The currency in the country of love is not interchangeable with any of the colourful pieces of paper most people are so crazy about.
So when we say we love you it comes from the bottom of our hearts.


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